Condolences for the sad loss.
You refered to congo members not calling in the four days and that being too long for an elderly man. Could someone say that family members should have called him on the phone sometime in those four days and raised the alarm when he didn't answer after a few attempts? That would be any easy reply and hurt the family more.
Was there an arrangement by the family for the JW's to call on a regular basis? If there wasn't, then that might be another easy reply that might hurt the family. Even if there was an arrangement to call every two or three days or whatever, then a four day window could be missed easily, especially if people weren't especially concerned thinking he was supervised or if his death was unexpected?
I'd just be concerned about the possible consequences of adding a deliberate religious attack to the grief of a father's passing.
Max
(Edited several times for sensitivity! )
Edited by - Max Divergent on 11 October 2002 9:46:57